Life Unexpected: The Joy of the LORD is My Strength

 
 
 

Life Unexpected: The Joy of the LORD is My Strength

Anthony Connington

  • Part 1 - The Father’s Joy In The Son

  • Part 2 - The Word Gives Joy

  • Part 3 - A Joy Restored

Focus: Through Christ we can partake in the life of God and share in the joy of the Holy Spirit.

Romans 14:17

for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit.

We can have joy in the Holy Spirit

PART 1: The Father’s Joy In The Son

What does it mean to have joy, a true joy that lasts. A joy that can be experienced no matter the unexpected curveballs life throws our way. 

First, let us define what joy actually is and is not.

Joy is not the same thing as happiness, though they are often associated together. There are subtle and important differences between the two.

Happiness is a very good thing to experience and it feels amazing when you have it. Unfortunately, on this side of eternity, being happy is only a temporary experience. It is a fleeting emotion that comes and goes and is never constant in our lives. 

Joy is similar in that it too is expressed at times as an emotion. However, unlike the emotion of happiness, joy is much more than just an emotion.

“Joy is closely related to gladness and happiness, although joy is more of a state of being than an emotion; a result of a choice” –The Lexham Bible Dictionary

“Joy is a state of delight and well-being that results from knowing and serving God…Joy is the fruit of a right relation with God, It is not something people can create by their own efforts.” –Holman Illustrated Bible Dictionary 

Joy is something that is best defined outside of ourselves.

Joy comes not by the pursuit of enlightenment and gaining knowledge and wisdom. Nor is Joy found in seeking your own happiness, personal pleasure, and fulfillment. Instead, true joy is found in giving your life away to God and surrendering yourself to His Lordship. 

True and lasting joy is only found in God Himself. 

God is not a cosmic killjoy as some have claimed. In fact the word joy appears over 150 times in the Bible and if you include the words joyous and joyful that number exceeds 200 times.

The word “rejoice" also appears in the Bible over 200 times.
The fact that these words are mentioned so often shows us that God is in the business of giving and receiving joy. This comes from his very nature, He is a God of Joy. 

Psalm 16:11 

You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.

Joy is best defined in God. God Himself is the very definition of Joy.

Let's take a moment and look at this from another angle, the perspective of the Trinity. 

Here are a few passages that describe the relationship between the Father and the Son.

Isaiah 42:1

Behold my servant, whom I uphold, my chosen, in whom my soul delights; I have put my Spirit upon him; he will bring forth justice to the nations.

This passage is speaking about the future messiah to come. The word “soul” here is speaking of God’s essence and fullness of being. All of God takes great joy and delight in the messiah. 

Later we see this same type of language exemplified at the baptism of Jesus.

Matthew 3:16-17 

When Jesus was baptized, he went up immediately from the water. The heavens suddenly opened for him, and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and coming down on him. And a voice from heaven said, “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well-pleased.”

God the Father is fully pleased and delights in His beloved Son. 

This is how the Triune God relates within Himself, full of delight and joy for one another. The Father perfectly expresses delight, and joy to the Son, the One in whom He is well pleased. The Son relishes in and fully shares and enjoys that same joy with the Father. The Holy Spirit then proceeds from both the Father and Son as the perfect expression of that same joy He shares with the Father and the Son. 

Michael Reeves says it best when he writes…

“First, if there is nothing more precious to the Father than (the Son), there cannot be any blessing higher than him or anything better than him. In every way, Jesus himself must be the very great reward of the gospel... He is the treasure of the Father, shared with us. Sometimes we find ourselves tiring of Jesus, stupidly imagining that we have seen all there is to see and used up all the pleasure there is to be had in him. We get spiritually bored. But Jesus has satisfied the mind and heart of the infinite God of eternity. Our boredom is simple blindness. If the Father can be infinitely and eternally satisfied in him, then he must be overwhelmingly all-sufficient for us. In every situation, for eternity.” –Michael Reeves, Rejoicing In Christ

Do you see it? That same joy can be ours through the Holy Spirit. We see this in Jesus in one of Jesus' prayers, He invites us to partake in that same joy. 

John 17:24-25

“Father, I want those you have given me to be with me where I am, so that they will see my glory, which you have given me because you loved me before the world’s foundation. Righteous Father, the world has not known you. However, I have known you, and they have known that you sent me. I made your name known to them and will continue to make it known, so that the love you have loved me with may be in them and I may be in them.”

This prayer shows us that Jesus desires to share with us the same intimacy and joy He has with His Father.

Through the Holy Spirit, the Father shares His Son and the Son shares His Father with us. 

Through the Holy Spirit we are invited to partake in that same love and joy the Father and Son share together. 

“To be indwelt by the Holy Spirit is to be indwelt by the Joy of God in God. To be full of the Holy Spirit is to be overflowing with God’s Joy in God. We are not left to our own limited personalities. We are given divine assistance to enjoy what is infinitely enjoyable. God the Spirit is our indwelling ability to enjoy God” –John Piper

The true meaning of joy is to partake and share in the Joy of God that He has within Himself. To know the Joy of God in God. This is to know God, to experience His joy. 

The question needs to be asked, how can we practically do this, share in the joy of God? 

PART 2: The Word Gives Joy

We partake in the Joy of God in God through receiving His Word

The Old Testament prophet says it best when he says…

Jeremiah 15:16 

“Your words were found, and I ate them, and your words became to me a joy and the delight of my heart, for I am called by your name, O LORD, God of hosts. 

When we eat and take in the Word of God, the Holy Spirit imparts His joy to us. This Joy that we receive then becomes a great strength to us. 

No matter the unexpected things that come our way, the Word of God is our guiding light. The Word of God will sustain you and bring you great joy even in the midst of life's most difficult moments.

We see a great example of this in Nehemiah. The people had returned to Jerusalem after their exile in Babylon but things were not what they used to be. Things had changed. For many this was a grievous thing. Although the temple was rebuilt, it was not restored to its former glory. The walls were just rebuilt, the city was just beginning to heal, and things were not as some had remembered. Then Ezra begins reading the Law and we see this brings comfort, joy, and strength to the people.   

Nehemiah 8:1-3

And all the people gathered as one man into the square before the Water Gate. And they told Ezra the scribe to bring the Book of the Law of Moses that the Lord had commanded Israel. So Ezra the priest brought the Law before the assembly, both men and women and all who could understand what they heard, on the first day of the seventh month. And he read from it facing the square before the Water Gate from early morning until midday, in the presence of the men and the women and those who could understand. And the ears of all the people were attentive to the Book of the Law. 

Nehemiah 8:9-12

And Nehemiah, who was the governor, and Ezra the priest and scribe, and the Levites who taught the people said to all the people, “This day is holy to the Lord your God; do not mourn or weep.” For all the people wept as they heard the words of the Law. Then he said to them, “Go your way. Eat the fat and drink sweet wine and send portions to anyone who has nothing ready, for this day is holy to our Lord. And do not be grieved, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”  So the Levites calmed all the people, saying, “Be quiet, for this day is holy; do not be grieved.” And all the people went their way to eat and drink and to send portions and to make great rejoicing, because they had understood the words that were declared to them.

The people were grieved because they were not as they once were. They were starting over and rebuilding their lives and identity in God after the exile. 

When we hit the reset button in our own lives, it is God’s Word that will become our strength. 

The Joy of the LORD is my strength comes from a deep relationship with God and is given to us through the Word of God. By faith we receive this Word and then choose to live and share in the joy of God. 

But what happens if our joy is stolen from us? 

What if we feel like we have lost our joy?

What do we do to begin this rebuilding process like they did in Nehemiah's day?

Where do we start?

PART 3: A Joy Restored

To answer these questions, let's take a look at Psalm 51:1-12

Behind the scenes of this song is a story, the story of David

Here is King David’s darkest moment in his life. He has just murdered his good friend Uriah, taken his wife by force, got her pregnant, and then shortly after the baby is born God kills the infant as a judgment against David’s sin. 

David’s world is turned upside down. Things are not as they are supposed to be and it is because of him. All of this is his fault.

Psalm 51:1-12

Have mercy on me, O God,
    according to your steadfast love;
according to your abundant mercy
    blot out my transgressions.

2 Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity,
    and cleanse me from my sin!

3 For I know my transgressions,
    and my sin is ever before me.
4 Against you, you only, have I sinned
    and done what is evil in your sight,
so that you may be justified in your words
    and blameless in your judgment.

5 Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity,
    and in sin did my mother conceive me.

6 Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being,
    and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart.

7 Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean;
    wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

8 Let me hear joy and gladness;
    let the bones that you have broken rejoice.

9 Hide your face from my sins,
    and blot out all my iniquities.

10 Create in me a clean heart, O God,
    and renew a right[b] spirit within me.

11 Cast me not away from your presence,
    and take not your Holy Spirit from me.

12 Restore to me the joy of your salvation,
    and uphold me with a willing spirit.

The Father reconciles us to Himself by joining us to his incarnate Son, through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. It is through this reconciliation we can now partake in the joy of the LORD.

Second City Church - Pastor Rollan Fisher

Life Unexpected: Patiently Righteous

 
 
 

Life Unexpected: Patiently Righteous

Pastor Rollan Fisher

 

Focus: How you respond whenever there are curveballs in life helps reveal your foundations and refine your love for Jesus. 

 

  • Patience is a Virtue

  • How We Respond 

  • In the Righteousness of God

 

Patience is a Virtue

Much of life is here to help test and develop our patience.  

When Paul was instructing the early Roman church, he had to clarify for them the nature of true faith. 

Whereas they were looking to determine their piety by ceremonies involving rituals like eating and drinking certain foods, Paul pointed instead to a life that comes fully alive in Jesus Christ.  

 

Romans 14:17 ESV

“For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.”

 

When Paul speaks about the Kingdom of God, he is speaking about Jesus as Lord - Christ being the governor and benevolent ruler of your heart, mind and actions. 

True faith is to be based around our understanding of the one true God in Jesus, fortified by a relationship with him and grounded in genuine experience with him.   

Though valuable, true faith is not found simply in external, cultural rituals.  

True faith is found in how we walk with Jesus through life, even in the midst of an unexpected life.  

 

The question is: 

What is God determined to produce in you through the unexpected curveballs of life?  

Answer: 

Fresh Fruit!

One of those fruits is patience.  

 

Patience is the fruit of the Holy Spirit that is the bedrock on which righteousness can be received, developed in our lives and expressed toward others.   

Curveballs are the opportunities to grow in this fruit by making determined choices to live righteously despite our surprising, and  at times, frustrating,  circumstances. 

*This is why we need to find a way to encourage one another daily - intentionally filling our conversations with the truth, promises and eternal hope found in Jesus. 

 

Proverbs 24:10 ESV

“If you faint in the day of adversity, your strength is small.”

 

Hebrews 3:12-14 ESV 

“Take care, brothers, lest there be in any of you an evil, unbelieving heart, leading you to fall away from the living God. But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called "today," that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. For we have come to share in Christ, if indeed we hold our original confidence firm to the end.”

 

It is not only how you treat others outside the home, but how you treat people closest to you - in your family, with your roommates - that is the real measure of your devotion to pleasing God. 

Life unexpectedly shows us where our faith, love and our confidence truly lay.  

Were they in God or something else?

 

“If my house has collapsed at one blow, that is because it was a house of cards. The faith which 'took these things into account' was not faith but imagination.”

-C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed

 

Patience literally means long-suffering.  

 

That means suffering for a long time. 

  • Can we do it with patient, righteous responses?

  • Can we do it with peace?

  • Can we do it with joy in the Holy Spirit?

 

How We Respond

Those who understand patience as long-suffering know that God is shaping us to be like Jesus through trial.  

God tests you to break you and then strengthen you.  

This is the real testimony.  

We become a living testimony of the truth of Scripture when we patiently walk with Jesus through an unexpected life. 

 

“More often than not, it is what you are rather than what you say that will bring an unbeliever to Christ. This, then, is the ultimate apologetic. For the ultimate apologetic is: your life”

-William Lane Craig

 

*The only thing that truly produces both righteousness and patience is time spent with Christ - reflecting on his sufferings and receiving grace for our own as we look to our reward in him. 

Walking with God is different than just believing in God.  

Walking with God means that you are:

  1. Thinking about how to obey Scripture in the decisions that you are making regarding relationships, work and pursuits. This applies to how you spend time, talent and treasure. 

  2. Listening for the voice of the Holy Spirit - Inviting God into every moment of your day, including at home, at work, with friends and with neighbors. 

  3. Asking God to fill you your heart with the tangible patience of God, as you set your heart on living righteously before him. 

 

Matthew 18:21-35 ESV

“Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?" Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times. "Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.' And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii, and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, 'Pay what you owe.' So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you.' He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt. When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place. Then his master summoned him and said to him, 'You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?' And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart."”

 

When people are already trying to live for Jesus, harsh judgments discourage rather encourage people to become who God has made them to be.  

How do I know if I’m being patient with others?

We now it by our response and our tone.  

 

Proverbs 15:1 ESV

“A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”

 

Proverbs 25:15 ESV

“With patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue will break a bone.”

 

In the Righteousness of God

The righteousness of God frees me to develop in Christ and patiently allow others to do the same.  

Whenever we return to the original Scriptural reference in Romans, Paul was addressing a community that was trying to find their right standing with God based on ceremonial rules and traditions regarding their eating, drinking and rituals rather than in Christ.  

Paul was appealing to the Romans that there is no basis of our right standing with God without Christ, his cross for our sins and his resurrection from the dead.  

How often has life unexpected brought us to a point where the fruit of our lives, embittered and disillusioned by disappointment with circumstance, yourself and others, brings out of you what Paul would describe in Romans?

 

Romans 3:10-18 ESV

“as it is written: "None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one." "Their throat is an open grave; they use their tongues to deceive." "The venom of asps is under their lips." "Their mouth is full of curses and bitterness." "Their feet are swift to shed blood; in their paths are ruin and misery, and the way of peace they have not known." "There is no fear of God before their eyes."”

 

Again, life unexpected exposes our foundations to us, not to God.  

“God has not been trying an experiment on my faith or love in order to find out their quality. He knew it already. It was I who didn't. In this trial He makes us occupy the dock, the witness box, and the bench all at once. He always knew that my temple was a house of cards. His only way of making me realize the fact was to knock it down.”

-C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed

The surprising righteousness of Christ provides a patience with myself and others that enables me to walk in kindness towards myself and others.  

 

Romans 3:21-27 ESV

“But now the righteousness of God has been manifested apart from the law, although the Law and the Prophets bear witness to it— the righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ for all who believe. For there is no distinction: for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith. This was to show God's righteousness, because in his divine forbearance he had passed over former sins. It was to show his righteousness at the present time, so that he might be just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus. Then what becomes of our boasting? It is excluded. By what kind of law? By a law of works? No, but by the law of faith.”

 

When I’ve come to understand the righteousness that God has given me in Jesus, I am no longer continually beating myself or others up, but am striving to treat everyone with the same mercy and grace with which Jesus has treated me.  

I can patiently wait on God’s promises and respond in righteous obedience to him because I know my promises are not based on my merit, but on God’s goodness to me.   

The righteous things I do as I wait, I do out of love for the one who has given me his perfect record, and not to earn that which I could never measure up enough to attain.  

 

Second City Church - Pastor Rollan Fisher