Reflections
Pastor Rollan Fisher
Focus: God is building a family that will bring him great praise in the earth through Jesus Christ.
Happy Mother’s Day
Psalm 127 gives us a unique perspective on that about which the Israelites would have been reflecting as they made their way up to Jerusalem for the annual moments of worship.
Whereas several of the songs of ascents were written by unknown authors, we know that this particular Psalm was written by King Solomon, the third king of Israel, who was specifically known as the son of King David (a man after God’s own heart) and Bathsheba, with whom David sinfully used his power and influence to commit adultery.
Yet God is continually redemptive.
In his lifetime, God would place Solomon on David’s throne as his successor, anoint Solomon to be one of the wisest men (outside of Christ) who ever lived, allow Solomon to build the original temple in Jerusalem and extend the borders of Israel to their furthest extent.
With all of these life experiences, this is the song that the Holy Spirit allowed to come out of Solomon’s heart for the people of Israel to sing.
Building a House
Keeping Watch
Arrows in the Hand of the Lord
Building a House
God is a wise master builder with the perfect plan for our lives and how our homes should be built for blessing.
A Song of Ascents
Of Solomon
Psalm 127:1-5 ESV
“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain. It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep. Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.”
God is a wise master builder.
We must take our cues from him as to how to build our lives.
We must depend on God to build that which we are giving ourselves to, whether it be family, church, business or community endeavors, lest we build in vain.
*Building in vain means not that there isn’t activity, but that we don’t reach God’s desired end.
Galatians 4:8-11 ESV
“Formerly, when you did not know God, you were enslaved to those that by nature are not gods. But now that you have come to know God, or rather to be known by God, how can you turn back again to the weak and worthless elementary principles of the world, whose slaves you want to be once more? You observe days and months and seasons and years! I am afraid I may have labored over you in vain.”
Galatians 4:19 ESV
“my little children, for whom I am again in the anguish of childbirth until Christ is formed in you!”
1 Thessalonians 3:5 ESV
“For this reason, when I could bear it no longer, I sent to learn about your faith, for fear that somehow the tempter had tempted you and our labor would be in vain.”
If God is the builder, we must go to him for both a vision and a plan of how to build our homes - both natural and spiritual (the church).
Proverbs 29:18 ESV
“Where there is no prophetic vision the people cast off restraint, but blessed is he who keeps the law.”
On this day we remember the importance of mothers in all of this.
We honor the single moms, adoptive moms, the moms with a husband and children and the spiritual moms who have been helping to build the house of the Lord through their investment in daughters and sons in the faith.
Proverbs 14:1 ESV
“The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.”
To build is to approach a task proactively just as surely as it is proactive to keep watch.
Throwing rocks at something doesn’t make something a home.
*Building your home in Christ means being involved in creating a Biblical culture in your space.
And in the church, it is no different with women of God who act as spiritual mothers in the houses of faith that they help lead.
Don’t disqualify the importance of your role in building, watching and modeling a culture of trust.
It is not about perfection, it is about progress!
I Timothy 4:12-16 ESV
“Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity. Until I come, devote yourself to the public reading of Scripture, to exhortation, to teaching. Do not neglect the gift you have, which was given you by prophecy when the council of elders laid their hands on you. Practice these things, immerse yourself in them, so that all may see your progress. Keep a close watch on yourself and on the teaching. Persist in this, for by so doing you will save both yourself and your hearers.”
To build a home takes vision, sacrifice, is meticulous, requires perseverance and energy that is constantly being renewed.
What are practical ways that you build?:
Every day, brick by brick, you can model reading the Bible, praying, worshiping consistently as rhythms of the home - if you have a family, with the family, and privately, if living alone.
You can model hospitality rhythms where you are welcoming people into your home with the love and gospel of Christ.
You can make sure that in your leisure that you are not watching (streaming movies/shows, feeding on music, etc.) or consuming that (food, beverages, etc. in measures) which displeases the Lord.
You can make it a priority to honor the Sabbath, worshiping with other believers and not simply at the temple of weekend sports or other hobbies.
You can cultivate the home as a place of beauty, warmth, and rest.
*Part of being a watchman or woman is to have the sight to see where the trajectory of your present actions lead.
Keeping Watch
God is a tireless watchman who neither slumbers nor sleeps.
Psalm 121:2-5 ESV (also a song of ascents)
“My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth. He will not let your foot be moved; he who keeps you will not slumber. Behold, he who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. The Lord is your keeper; the Lord is your shade on your right hand.”
We must look to God to keep watch over our personal affairs, families, cities and nations.
Psalm 127:2
Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain.
In this fallen world, it is not if, but when we have to contend with our enemies and the demonic hordes of hell that we need to trust in God.
*The rhythms that we build as watchmen and women prior to battles or blessings coming prepares us to be able to stand when they do.
We all want to be postured to receive blessings.
Yet as watchmen and women, we also need to be prepared for battles.
We can try to prevent problems, trials and trauma from entering our gates, but unless we are depending on the Lord to keep watch, we are doomed to be overtaken.
This is why building a life of faithful, consistent prayer, both individual and corporate is so vital.
“Whatever you don’t pray about, you leave to chance.”
-Stormie Omartian
“Don’t leave your relationships to chance. Pray for godly people to come into your life with whom you can connect. Don’t force relationships to happen. Pray for them to happen. Then when they do, nurture them with prayer.”
Stormie Omartian, The Power of a Praying® Woman
And this also applies directly to our provision.
There is no need in the midst of uncertain economic times to worry.
God does not want us to be anxious.
Your Heavenly Father knows what you need before you ask him.
Psalm 127:3
It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep.
God says for all of our efforts to wake up early and stay up late, the results are ultimately in his hands.
His one condition is that we do as Jesus says.
Matthew 6:31-34 ESV
“Therefore do not be anxious, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. "Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”
God wants you to work, but he also wants you to rest.
*You will find the greatest work-life balance when you set your heart on fulfilling God’s will and his alone.
Even in the present economy, you can be free from the prodding rods of both greed and worry because you know that God cares for his children and grants sleep to those he loves.
But who can sleep when you have children?
Arrows in the Hand of the Lord
God is a loving parent who would sacrifice his own one and only son to redeem our sinful lives.
Psalm 127:3-5
Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.”
You have to have a Biblical vision to build, keep watch and rest in Christ.
But you also have to have a vision for godly parenting.
In all of the things we spoke about above, with the Holy Spirit’s help, you are modeling for your family.
So often home is the place where we just dump things and the people there get the last of our energy - the leftovers.
*The greatest thing a mother or any parent can do is to prepare their children to walk with God - to know Jesus Christ, his gospel and be an arrow in the hand of the Lord to be shot into this generation to impact eternity.
Yes, seeing them fulfill their full God-given potential in academia, the arts, personal and social development are important.
Yet these are all stewardships unto God’s ultimate purpose for them cultivating the earth with what God has given them to do that will glorify Jesus.
Proverbs 22:6 ESV
“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Your primary job is not to entertain your children (or let them be entertained on devices), or be their uber driver to every hobby at the expense of God given priorities of worship, family and service.
To form, shape and help direct an arrow, you should ask the question:
What is God’s call for my child’s life?
(This applies to both natural and spiritual children)
David and Solomon
David had the vision for worship, Solomon had the charge to build the temple, the place of worship.
Solomon also knew the importance of mothers.
Did Bathsheba have a perfect, spotless story?
No.
But her story would be redeemed and she would find herself in the lineage of Christ Jesus himself (Matthew 1:6).
Bathsheba was instrumental, even amidst others jockeying to push Solomon off course, in seeing Solomon fulfill his call to lead Israel as king after his father David (I Kings 1:16-30).
Though Solomon did this imperfectly, Bathsheba did her part.
In the gospel, it is not how you start, but how you finish.
For us all:
The foundations were cracking and the walls had been breached.
Sin is when we miss the target of God’s ways, as an arrow missing its mark.
As a result, the enemy of our souls was at the gate taking plunder because we stopped looking to Yahweh to build and watch over our lives.
And this is why God sent his Son.
(Jesus was the perfect arrow in the hand of the Lord, striking right at the heart of the enemy who came to steal, kill and destroy our lives.
Jesus fought to take back the plunder that had been dragged off by the demonic hordes wreaking havoc in our hearts, minds, families, cities and nations.)
Yahweh was able to contend with his enemies at the gate because his perfect Son submitted to his perfect will and became the perfect sacrifice, the hero that we all needed.
The Lord sent his only begotten son as the perfect arrow to hit the mark for our redemption.
Yet repentance and faith are required.
The cross empowers us to lay down our faults, be forgiven because of Jesus’ perfect sacrifice and have new hope for the future because of Christ’s resurrection from the dead.
Let’s come to Christ, renewing our trust in him to build, keep watch over and provide true rest for our lives again today.
Appendix:
Parenting can be tough, yet we have One who continually calls us to himself to refresh and sustain us.
This is why the prophet would tell us:
Isaiah 40:27-31 ESV
“Why do you say, O Jacob, and speak, O Israel, "My way is hidden from the Lord, and my right is disregarded by my God"? Have you not known? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; his understanding is unsearchable. He gives power to the faint, and to him who has no might he increases strength. Even youths shall faint and be weary, and young men shall fall exhausted; but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.”
In the gospel, it is not how you start, but how you finish.
Starting and finishing - continuing through the changing seasons (remembering the importance of upkeep of the home lest it crumble over time) is key.
Think again of the author of the Psalm, King Solomon.
He started well, but did not finish well.
Parenting is not just about the early years, but lasts a lifetime.
Don’t think that once they are out of diapers, your job is done.
Though the relationship matures, you are still important as a godly influence in your children’s lives.
Solomon could have benefited from more of this.
Again, in the gospel, it is not how you start, but how you finish.
*Think about the turmoil and stigma that would have surrounded Solomon’s life, but how Yahweh would nonetheless choose Solomon and anoint him to be king.
This is a beautiful picture of God’s grace that comes to us through the cross of Jesus Christ.
We are chosen and anointed for God’s purposes not because of our perfection, but his sovereign wisdom - which he uses to enact his redemptive grace to the world.
As we repent of our sins and turn to Jesus at the cross for forgiveness, he makes us new creations and through his resurrection power leads us into God’s purposes following the example of his Christ’s set apart life.
Second City Church