Is your identity what you do or who you belong to? What you do can change or be taken from you, but if you live out of who you belong to, joyful obedience is your sole goal and primary reward.
Saul's Insecurity
Where do you receive your honor, security and praise?
Saul, who lacked depth in his identity in God, was insecure when God called him (I Samuel 10) and proud when God rejected him because he lacked depth in the Lord. Saul was always looking for public recognition for his validation. He was jealous of King David's success and looked to tear him down.
1 Samuel 15:24-31
Saul said to Samuel, “I have sinned, for I have transgressed the commandment of the Lord and your words, because I feared the people and obeyed their voice. Now therefore, please pardon my sin and return with me that I may bow before the Lord.” And Samuel said to Saul, “I will not return with you. For you have rejected the word of the Lord, and the Lord has rejected you from being king over Israel.” As Samuel turned to go away, Saul seized the skirt of his robe, and it tore. And Samuel said to him, “The Lord has torn the kingdom of Israel from you this day and has given it to a neighbor of yours, who is better than you. And also the Glory of Israel will not lie or have regret, for he is not a man, that he should have regret.” Then he said, “I have sinned; yet honor me now before the elders of my people and before Israel, and return with me, that I may bow before the Lord your God.” So Samuel turned back after Saul, and Saul bowed before the Lord.
Proverbs 27:21
The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold, and a man is tested by his praise.
How are you passive aggressive with your brothers and sisters in the church? In your workplace?
Saul tried to have the Philistines kill David.
Romans 12:14-21
Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Christ's Security
Finding your identity in Christ enables you to respond securely to His call and humbly to His reproofs.
1 Peter 2:20-25
For what credit is it if, when you sin and are beaten for it, you endure? But if when you do good and suffer for it you endure, this is a gracious thing in the sight of God. For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps. He committed no sin, neither was deceit found in his mouth. When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly. He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed. For you were straying like sheep, but have now returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls.
A secret life in the Lord allowed David to write Psalms, privately kill the lion and the bear in defense of his father's flock, publicly defeat Goliath and faithfully shepherd the people Israel, leading them in the Lord's battles.
David was not insecure, but humble, when the Lord made His promises to David. There is a stark difference between insecurity and humility, which the Lord commands. One finds its rest in God. The other finds it in the shifting sands of anything but the Lord.
This humility allowed David to respond gracefully when the going got tough.
"A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him."
-David Brinkley
David's Humility
How do I know if my heart is in the right place?
2 Samuel 7:18-29
Then King David went in and sat before the Lord and said, “Who am I, O Lord God, and what is my house, that you have brought me thus far? And yet this was a small thing in your eyes, O Lord God. You have spoken also of your servant's house for a great while to come, and this is instruction for mankind, O Lord God! And what more can David say to you? For you know your servant, O Lord God! Because of your promise, and according to your own heart, you have brought about all this greatness, to make your servant know it. Therefore you are great, O Lord God. For there is none like you, and there is no God besides you, according to all that we have heard with our ears. And who is like your people Israel, the one nation on earth whom God went to redeem to be his people, making himself a name and doing for them great and awesome things by driving out before your people, whom you redeemed for yourself from Egypt, a nation and its gods? And you established for yourself your people Israel to be your people forever. And you, O Lord, became their God. And now, O Lord God, confirm forever the word that you have spoken concerning your servant and concerning his house, and do as you have spoken. And your name will be magnified forever, saying, ‘The Lord of hosts is God over Israel,’ and the house of your servant David will be established before you. For you, O Lord of hosts, the God of Israel, have made this revelation to your servant, saying, ‘I will build you a house.’ Therefore your servant has found courage to pray this prayer to you. And now, O Lord God, you are God, and your words are true, and you have promised this good thing to your servant. Now therefore may it please you to bless the house of your servant, so that it may continue forever before you. For you, O Lord God, have spoken, and with your blessing shall the house of your servant be blessed forever.”
Jesus is our perfect example of both security and humility, dying on the cross for our sins and rising again in the triumphant power of God. He calls us to follow His lead.
Second City Church: Body Talk Sermon Series 2016